Shafia wife endured abuse for fear she’d be killed, trial hears

Fahima VorgettsRona Amir Mohammad did not flee abuse by her husband Mohammad Shafia and his second wife because she feared her husband would kill her, jurors at Shafia’s murder trial were told. “She said if she leaves, her husband will kill her,” Fahima Vorgetts (inset) testified Tuesday. “She took it seriously because her husband told her he will kill her if she leaves.” Vorgetts, a U.S.-based volunteer with Women for Afghan Women, a human rights organization, said she began taking phone calls from the Montreal woman in the spring of 2008, after a referral through Vorgetts’ aunt.

Vorgetts also is a native of Afghanistan. She said Rona seemed desperate, and called her two to three times a week for roughly a year.

Rona, along with Shafia sisters Zainab, 19, Sahar, 17, and Geeti, 13, were found dead in a submerged car in a canal in Kingston on June 30, 2009. Three weeks later Shafia, 58, his wife Tooba Mohammad Yahya, 41, and their son Hamed, 20, were arrested and each charged with four counts of first-degree murder. They have pleaded not guilty.

Rona was Shafia’s first wife, whom he married in his native Afghanistan, before the family moved to Canada in 2007 and settled in Montreal. Prosecutors allege the victims died in an honour killing orchestrated by Shafia because he believed his daughters had shamed him and his first wife had become a source of constant friction in the household.

Vorgetts said Rona was not allowed to use the phone in the family’s St. Leonard house so she would go to a payphone in a nearby park in the evening and call. She said many calls were marked by long bouts of crying as Rona recounted constant abuse and humiliation.

“She did say that he beat her up, the husband beat her up … he was pulling her hair,” Vorgetts testified.  Rona also complained of being kicked by Shafia.

“She said that her husband and her husband’s wife were abusive towards her and she needs help, what to do, where to go,” Vorgetts told jurors. “She did not have any information, knowledge about what to do in this country.”

Vorgetts said she urged her to go to a shelter, a church or to police, but Rona told her she was too afraid to leave and was warned by Shafia that he’d make sure she was shipped back to Afghanistan if she went to authorities. Vorgetts testified that Shafia held all of Rona’s identity documents, including her passport, so Rona believed she could not flee to another country, where she had relatives.

“She said that her husband’s wife would mock her, put her down in front of the family’s guests,” she testified. Rona told Vorgetts that Yahya told Rona, “you are a slave, you are a servant.”

Though Yahya gave birth to all of the family’s children, Rona had helped to raise them, the trial has heard.

“She loved the girls, she loved the children and she said that it’s very difficult to leave the children,” Vorgetts testified.

Defence lawyer Peter Kemp, who represents Shafia, asked Vorgetts why she didn’t call police in Montreal herself if she believed Rona’s life was in danger.

“I asked Rona to do it and that was her call,” Vorgetts replied. She could not offer any details of any injuries Rona might have suffered as a result of the abuse she claimed she endured.

Jurors already have heard that Rona asked Shafia for a divorce but he had refused to put anything on paper. An immigration lawyer who testified Tuesday said that if Shafia’s polygamy was revealed in Canada, the second marriage would have been considered invalid and Rona would have had legal rights to property and support.

Diba Masoomi
Rona's sister Diba Masoomi, who came to Canada from France to testify at the trial (photo: Lars Hagberg)

Montreal lawyer Sabine Venturelli said if Shafia’s hidden polygamy had come to light, it would have had serious repercussions on the family.

“I think immigration [officials] would have withdrawan residential status of all members of the family,” testified Venturelli, who had handled an application by Rona for permanent resident status. Other family members already had status.

A sibling of Rona who traveled thousands of kilometres from France to appear at the trial concluded her testimony Tuesday with an animated soliloquy.

Diba Masoomi, who lives in France and was a younger sister of Rona, had testified Monday that Rona told her, in a phone call, that she overheard Shafia plotting to kill her and Zainab.

During questioning by defence lawyer Patrick McCann Tuesday, Masoomi insisted she was telling the truth. She said she would “swear on Qur’an” that she is being truthful and said she would be “in fire in hell” if she lied. She said she has suffered terribly.

“To be a witness is very hard,” Masoomi said, her voice rising. “I want nothing. I just want justice. I came here and I ask from this place just to have justice.

“Court should ask from Tooba why it’s happened.”

“That’s enough,” McCann said, interrupting her. Moments later he walked away from the lectern, signaling an end to his questioning.

Masoomi repeated her plea when Mr. Justice Robert Maranger thanked Masoomi and said she could leave.

“I just want from the Government of Canada to have justice and we should find out from Tooba…”

“That’s good, ” Maranger said, cutting her off.

Jurors also heard Tuesday from a boyfriend of Sahar Shafia, who said that they had a secret, four-month relationship before her death. The young Montreal man cannot be named because of a court order that protects his identity until he has completed his testimony.

He testified that the relationship was kept secret because Sahar was afraid to let her family know about it.

He will be back on the witness stand Wednesday.

Wednesday would have been Geeti Shafia’s 16th birthday.

(this appeared first at the Montreal Gazette)

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  1. The dynamics of domestic violence have been studied in the U.S. for decades. What has been discovered is that a domestic violence abuser is immune to reason or equality in a domestic relationship. He sees his victim as merely an extension of himself, not a person with the right to ideas, feeling, and actions of her own but a possession to enhance him. The abuser isolates the victim and gradually punishes any indication of independence and forces the victim to cater to the arbitrary whims and needs and desires of the abuser. The abuser feels entitled to exert his will on the victim and to ridicule, abuse, torture, rape, even murder the victim but never takes responsibility for these actions, instead blaming the victim for such behavior and deflecting consequences to the victim. Despite laws to the contrary, society often aids and abets the abuser by also blaming the victim without protecting the victim from abuse. Most domestic violence victims are murdered by their abusers when they try to leave them, especially if they have no one to help them.

    In Islam, women are seen, as Mohammad declared, as half as valuable as men and deficient in reason. In the Qur’an husbands are told to plow their fields [wives and those sex slaves they posses] as they see fit. Husbands are also told to punish and beat their wives merely on the “fear of disobedience,” so wives are expected to obey their husband’s every whim or be punished and/or beaten. That does not leave much room for independent thoughts or actions. Women are also made responsible for any sexual crimes committed against them, which can include such things as talking to a man or standing too close to a man or simply that her husband is jealous of her, and can be stoned to death on the mere allegation of impropriety. Such punishment comes with the accuser, anyone he might happen to have to support his assertion, and the imam who pronounces sentence, and the woman is not allowed to speak on her own behalf because it is considered improper (too tempting to men) for women to speak about sexual things in public. These are Islamic principles enforced socially by Sharia law, and the veils women wear are an indication that they take, willingly or not, responsibility for the lust of men. This responsibility goes beyond being “modest” and she can be covered from head to toes with only her eyes showing and still be punished for having seductive/attractive eyes. Women who try to leave their Muslim husbands can be killed for apostasy or for appearing improper being without their husband’s permission.

    Sharia law enforcement of Islam codifies domestic abuse of women. Islam appeals to domestic violence abusers as it gives them impunity for their crimes against women. Islam also conditions women to take responsibility for their own abuse. Islam enforced by Sharia law is an inhuman system with no respect for God-given reasoning powers bestowed on human men and women and even forbids reasonable analysis of itself. Islam is simply a domestic violence abuser’s dream.

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